The adventures and rants of being single, page 2

Last Friday night, I had a date.

It was a nice, very light, fun night.

We really didn't know where to eat. He suggested sushi and wine but I don't eat sushi.

Yes, I'm Asian and I don't like eating sushi.

Anyway, so we just decided to go to this Italian restaurant.

It was a nice, cozy place and they had Basketball channel with NBA Game 7 replay on. Haha. All for the love for Stephen Curry.

It was so easy talking to him since we have a lot in common.

We are on the same field, so, it was easy as pie talking bout what I do and what he does.

It wasn't boring at all. It was kinda fun talking bout how we talked bout work. We were such nerds.

And me being me, of course, I noticed details. I'm a girl, that's normal.

Yup, I wasn't dreaming. This is real. That's him. Lol

I noticed how he knows his wine well. I told him how I wasn't fond of wines cause the last time I had wine, I didn't like it... but good Lord, the wine he picked was just perfection. It was great. It was awesome how he changed my opinion about wine.

I noticed how smart he is. He is very smart. He likes reading. He likes researching stuff. It was flattering how he said he thinks I'm smart too. *insert blushing emoji*.
I mean, I like to read and research bout stuff too. Especially when I'm really into it, I won't stop digging and talking bout it. I remember when I was so intrigued about the first men on the moon, I've read tons of articles and listened to the conversations radio operators picked during the mission.

OKAY, I KNOW, I'M A NERD. It was also nice how he said "Thanks" when I said "You're such a nerd".. like how I would normally respond when someone says I'm a nerd. Yeah, cause for me "nerd" is a compliment. It just means you're calling me a nerd cause you don't know much stuff on this like me. And he totally gets that!

I noticed how he looked at me when I first took a sip of the wine.. as if he was so hopeful that I would like it. I even said "Don't look at me. I get really expressive when I don't like something" and he just laughed.

I noticed how much he loves his job and how much he loves talking bout it. I know this will be a turn off for some girls but it really made me become interested in him more.

I noticed that he tipped 10% and I think that's an American thing. *rolling eyes emoji* lol

I noticed a lot of things and it's probably a bit creepy if I will continue telling everything I noticed. Lol

Wine & Pizza; This guy knows me so well already hahaha oh shit

We just got along so well.

We talked for hours. We talked about everything under the sun. We also watched funny videos on YouTube lol

One thing I will never forget is that he didn't laugh when I said I wanted to go take a day tour of North Korea someday. Instead of laughing at me or asking "Why" making it sound like a bad or a stupid idea, he said, "Me too!".

I know I sound like I'm so inloooooove or whatever but I feel like I found someone who gets me.

I know it looks like I'm all in for it but wrong.

I'm now having this battle with myself.. trying to just forget all about it.

I don't wanna be attached and I can feel myself going through that path and it fucking sucks

I can't even deal with it. You know that you're both on the same page but you're still doubting. It's all sick.

My attachment issues are so fucking messed up.

It's all just frustrating.

I think I overthink stuff too much. Okay, that sounded so redundant.

But to end this on a lighter mood, I had fun. It was definitely not the last time.

And even though he broke my "I don't let guys pay for my dinner", I loved every bit of that night.

Definitely one for the books... or for this case, blog worthy! :)