"I told you cause I want you to hear it from me first"
"Aren't you glad I told you instead of you finding out from someone else?"
"Doesn't it tell something that I told you instead of lying?"
Oh, just a few defensive reasons I have heard first hand and from other people.
I just don't get it. Maybe I will never get it.
What goes into guys' minds when they do what they did and then be honest about it then say those crappy reasons?
I'm not generalizing guys neither just saying only guys do this but ya know what I'm saying. WHY?
Imagine this scenario:
The guy does stuff he knows that is wrong and will hurt or make his girlfriend mad.
Tells her girlfriend about it because he thinks he should tell her.
He feels guilty. He wants to be honest. He doesn't want her to find out from other people.
Girlfriend gets mad.
The guy does reverse psychology.
Makes her feel guilty or bad about being mad when the guy was being honest.
THIS IS FULL OF SHIT.
Why do it in the first place if you know she will be hurt or be upset?
Why? Just fucking why?
People who do this doesn't know how much it affects the other person.
They make the other person question herself.
Question herself if she is really right to be mad or upset or feel whatever she is feeling.
Basically making her crazy and doubtful about her emotions and reactions.
And that is crap.
You shouldn't be with someone who makes you feel like that.
Never settle for those kinds of people. They will just do that over and over again.
I'm just basically ranting because why not. And some people are jerks.
"Aren't you glad I told you instead of you finding out from someone else?"
"Doesn't it tell something that I told you instead of lying?"
Oh, just a few defensive reasons I have heard first hand and from other people.
I just don't get it. Maybe I will never get it.
What goes into guys' minds when they do what they did and then be honest about it then say those crappy reasons?
I'm not generalizing guys neither just saying only guys do this but ya know what I'm saying. WHY?
Imagine this scenario:
The guy does stuff he knows that is wrong and will hurt or make his girlfriend mad.
Tells her girlfriend about it because he thinks he should tell her.
He feels guilty. He wants to be honest. He doesn't want her to find out from other people.
Girlfriend gets mad.
The guy does reverse psychology.
Makes her feel guilty or bad about being mad when the guy was being honest.
THIS IS FULL OF SHIT.
Why do it in the first place if you know she will be hurt or be upset?
Why? Just fucking why?
People who do this doesn't know how much it affects the other person.
They make the other person question herself.
Question herself if she is really right to be mad or upset or feel whatever she is feeling.
Basically making her crazy and doubtful about her emotions and reactions.
And that is crap.
You shouldn't be with someone who makes you feel like that.
Never settle for those kinds of people. They will just do that over and over again.
I'm just basically ranting because why not. And some people are jerks.